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Sex: Communication is Key
Posted November 28, 2006 11:14 AM
We want the perfect woman in every sense of the word, yet it seems impossible to have it all. Obviously the things that attracted us to her in the beginning are still there, yet as we have come to know her over the years and as the protective walls have slowly come down and we’ve seen her at her most vulnerable, we have witnessed some imperfections in the finish, for lack of a better expression.
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Men usually cheat on their women as they fall victim to that lousy "grass is always greener" syndrome. Cheating doesn’t make you feel better. On the contrary, usually you feel awful. Often times men will confess their sins because they desperately want to address the problems of the shortcomings in their relationship, but don’t know how to address them, so they blow the whole damn thing up with a stick of dynamite.Whatever you see in the new girl you saw in the old girl. Embrace her insecurities and get to understand them. Go the extra mile and find out more about her and what makes her tick…not just in bed, big fella, but in her head. After ten or fifteen years, you probably have figured out how to co-exist peacefully, and you’ve perfected the art of shrugging your shoulders, shaking your head and saying, "f’ng broad is crazy." Truth be told, if you changed your day-to-day, methodical existence and tossed in a three-day spa retreat twice a year, I bet you'll feel like it was your honeymoon all over again. Experiment with it and see if I’m right or if I’m crazy. Drop me a line after you’ve dropped a grand on a retreat as an ultimate gift for him AND her and let me know how it went. If you can’t pull that off, then bring the Luxurious Ultimate Spa Retreat home to you.
